Is your partner/boyfriend cheating?
Everyone hopes their partnership is built on trust, loyalty, faithfulness, and sincerity but what if that entire bond is broken, because your boyfriend cheats? After all, a relationship can't get anywhere if you didn't at least try to believe that. There are numerous signs that will
let you suspect that your boyfriend is cheating on you.
So, here are some tips to know if your partner/boyfriend is cheating...
- Sudden Changes in Schedule, Has your man's routine suddenly changed without you knowing why? Did his working/school hours increase or does he have a new set of schedule? This is the first tread if your boyfriend is cheating. So if you noticed this check more and get some evidences.
- Emotional Distance, Has he stopped listening or laughing? Does he seem distant or spacey, almost as if he's preoccupied? Take note if your partner is there physically, but not quite "there" mentally. Usually men’s are good and caring in terms of courting but if the relationship starts it is normal if the love in their lessen. Seeing this signs, it is alarming because it is not normal if your partner is present but his mind is rapid. So take note of this signs.
- Less Time Together, Just as the intensity of a relationship dwindle slightly over time, so may the time you spend together. But spending less time with each other shouldn't be confused with spending no time at all.
- Instinct, if your gut tells you that something is wrong or that some other woman has captured your man's attention, and then go with it. But take caution with how far you follow these feelings.
- Irritability: In just about all cases of boyfriends cheating, there will be a certain alternation in behavior and you may observe that he starts to criticize you and find fault in most of the things you do. In a way, he feels this works for him, as it tends to justify his cheating mind.
- Secrecy in phone calls: Nothing is more alarming than when his phone rings. He is kind of hesitant to answer the call and when he does, he will whisper softly and promises to return the phone call later. When this starts happening, you are almost sure that you are being cheated.
- Being insensitive to your feelings: Perhaps this is the most obvious of all signs that you realize the love you share is fast becoming ineffective, since someone else has replaced your love for him. Your boyfriend may even start forgetting those plans and dates that you two held, or call them off with no good reasons. All this happens, when he no more considers your feelings because another girl has occupied his mind. It could be worse, if you realize that he has not even bothered to invite you to the usual hangouts, which you used to visit earlier.
These tips aren't meant to turn your trusting relationship into a game of hide and go seek and there are always exceptions. Trust first, but don't ignore the warning signs. If there are just too many inconsistencies for comfort, then communicate them to your man directly. Don't let him hear of your suspicions from a friend. Also, try not to be harsh. Simply tell him how his behavior makes you feel. It is a huge help so that a relationship will not be broken just because of cheating.
